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        <title>Change your nature to gain control over want/sin</title>
        <description>Human misery stands a good chance of lasting as long as the sun shines until people decide that their want no longer matters enough to control life. Hear these words from the Book of Genesis: Adam made love to his...</description>
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        <content:encoded><![CDATA[Human misery stands a good chance of lasting as long as the sun shines until people decide that their want no longer matters enough to control life. Hear these words from the Book of Genesis: Adam made love to his wife Eve, and she became pregnant and gave birth to Cain. She said, “With the help of the Lord I have brought forth a man.” Later she gave birth to his brother Abel. Now Abel kept flocks, and Cain worked the soil. In the course of time Cain brought some of the fruits of the soil as an offering to the Lord. And Abel also brought an offering – fat portions from some of the firstborn of his flock. The Lord looked with favor on Abel and his offering, but on Cain and his offering he did not look with favor. So Cain was very angry, and his face was downcast. 6 Then the Lord said to Cain, “Why are you angry? Why is your face downcast? 7 If you do what is right, will you not be accepted? But if you do not do what is right, sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have you, but you must rule over it.” Now then… Cain said to his brother Abel, “Let’s go out to the field…” (Genesis 4:1-5, New International Version) We all know what happened next in that field – the first murder in the Bible. Regardless of the rightness or wrongness of God favoring Abel’s offering, whether or not God acted with fairness, a lifelong lesson jumps off this page: God teaches Cain “… sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have you, but you must rule over it.” Cain’s sin of wanting God’s favor crouched at his door, desiring and wanting to have Cain as a prize; and, God teaches Cain to rule over that want and determine for himself that he must rule over it. God teaches Cain to take charge, show self-control, and battle until conquering his want. You see, want/sin always crouches outside the door of where we live to pounce upon us. Want or sin ever letting go of its desire for us “just ain’t never gonna happen.” Every morning when I wake up I know I can count on my want as my personal chauffeur for the day, driving my decisions wherever my chauffeur wants to take me. Not even a question, is it? The single most unique and absolutely radical event that may occur during my day erupts when I choose to disallow my want to successfully control me. That decision, my friend, stands as the only reason why want/sin flubs up its dominance over me. Want wants what it wants when it wants it always. Try telling me that want only occasionally wants what it wants when it wants it. Tell me that, every now and then for some unknown reason, want desires nothing at all (at least for a little while). Nope… Not going to happen. Convincing me that, on occasion, want/sin desires to relinquish its control over my decision-making sounds as about as convincing as the sun rising in the west over the Pacific Ocean tomorrow morning. Want/sin cannot change its nature, but, we can change our nature, including any control that want/sin wishes over us. God gave us a power and a freedom to veto any control certain forces want over us. A quick read of the Bible provides us with all the information we need to discover want’s desire to control us and how even a little self-control can save the day. While an almost endless number of narratives like these float between the pages of biblical literature, simply review Genesis 4’s Cain and Abel story one more time. Genesis 4 teaches that self-control can save your brother’s life and spare others from enormous misery. So… Human misery stands a good chance of lasting as long as the sun shines until people decide that their want no longer matters enough to control life. Are you interested in giving it a try today? Let me tell you that the mother and father of humanity – Adam and Eve – as well as your mother, father, family, and friends might all appreciate your efforts. Tom Towns is pastor of First United Methodist Church in Cortez.]]></content:encoded>
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        <title>Tom’s Tidbits The Journey to New Jerusalem</title>
        <description>We take seven journeys through life. We leave home – our personal Garden of Eden – and find ourselves freed like God freed the Israelites from oppressive Egypt. Then we enter a wilderness journey, where we must learn about the...</description>
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        <content:encoded><![CDATA[We take seven journeys through life. We leave home – our personal Garden of Eden – and find ourselves freed like God freed the Israelites from oppressive Egypt. Then we enter a wilderness journey, where we must learn about the difficulties and exhilaration of being free. Eventually we “see the light” on our fourth journey and go to the Land of Promise, where we interact with people from multiple and different cultures. One day we take the sixth journey – the journey to New Jerusalem. While King David conquered the Jebusite city of Jerusalem about 1,000 B.C.E., making it “new,” the New Jerusalem can become a metaphor for how we live in community. Do we love our New Jerusalem neighbor as ourselves? Do we love New Jerusalem’s God with all our mind, soul, heart, and strength? If we demonstrate love for our neighbors and God, if we honor and respect those we meet as we journey through our day, then we live indeed in the New Jerusalem. We give birth to the “New Jerusalem” in our hearts, then the “New Jerusalem” with its love, honor, and respect for life develops into our relationships. Eleven hundred years after King David created a New Jerusalem, we find in the Book of Revelation – Chapters 21 and 22 – that God creates another New Jerusalem, where God decides to live for eternity – where death will be no more, no one will shed a tear or mourn, and the work of healing the nations begins. God’s glory will shine like a beacon, and kings, queens, and all faithful people will enter into the city to find love, honor, respect, and joy. To get to the New Jerusalem requires us to journey outside our comfort zone, leaving home and enter the wilderness. These are rugged journeys and are necessary for us to embrace our freedom and our accountability before being ready to enter into the New Jerusalem. Many begin such a journey as this; and, more than a few give up over the long haul. They ask, “When do I get rewarded for the accountability, love, honor, and respect that I gave?” The answer comes like this, “A good name is more desirable than great riches; to be esteemed is better than silver or gold.” (Proverbs 21:1, New International Version) In the New Jerusalem or with attitude of living in the New Jerusalem, one’s integrity matters more than gold and living accountably, honorably and respectfully leads to abundant life as the author of Proverbs teaches, “My child, do not forget my teaching, but let your heart keep my commandments; for length of days and years of life and peace they will add to you. Do not let kindness and truth leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart” (Proverbs 3:1-3, New International Version). This world view calling you and me to offer kindness, love, and honor to others demonstrates that we hold ourselves accountable in our freedom. Those who stay on this path will one day experience God’s New Jerusalem. Stay strong and committed, and abundant life will be yours. Such a journey includes hazards, detours and rough roads; however, we experience no better life than walking this path with the help and support of our God. The seventh and final journey comes after we enter the New Jerusalem. Tom Towns is pastor of First United Methodist Church in Cortez.]]></content:encoded>
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        <title>Our fifth journey: ‘Entering the Promised Land’</title>
        <description>After humanity found itself expelled from the Garden of Eden, after God freed the Israelites from ancient Egyptian oppression by performing cosmic warfare against Egyptian gods, magicians, and Pharaoh, God and Moses led the Israelites into the wilderness. Over time,...</description>
        <pubDate>Thu, 11 Dec 2014 20:56:31 -0700</pubDate>
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        <content:encoded><![CDATA[After humanity found itself expelled from the Garden of Eden, after God freed the Israelites from ancient Egyptian oppression by performing cosmic warfare against Egyptian gods, magicians, and Pharaoh, God and Moses led the Israelites into the wilderness. Over time, God sent the Israelites a Pillar of Fire and a Pillar of Smoke to guide all the people out of the wilderness to begin their fifth journey – “Entering the Promised Land.” Entering the Land of Promise required tremendous faith in God and well-organized plans, because, lo and behold, the Promised Land already supported thousands of other peoples; and, these other people spoke different languages from the Israelites and engaged in different political and religious practices. Added to those problems, the Israelites believed that God gave the Promised Land to God’s people and that those different people residing in the Promised Land amounted to more than squatters. Needless to say, conflicts broke out. Imagine a horde of people, who never spoke your language, came armed, rushing into Cortez, telling us all, “This land belongs to us now.” Warfare ravaged cities and towns, like the walls of Jericho tumbling down, enmity erupted; and, for about five hundred years Israelites never conquered the Promised Land. Not until King David brought the Ark of the Covenant to Jerusalem and fought many battles could Israelites become one, unified nation in control of the Middle East. Unfortunately for the Israelites, David and Solomon’s reigns as kings lasted a relatively short period, like eighty to one hundred years. After their reigns ended, the Israelite tribes broke up, creating two nations – the Northern and Southern kingdoms. Conflict once again came to the people who never worked out their differences. When Jesus came, he led God’s people into the Promised Land by means of a new method: instead of engaging in conflict and war, Jesus embraced all people, whether they followed different political or religious practices. He told the story about the Good Samaritan. He chatted with a Syrophoenician woman at a well. Jesus invited tax collectors and prostitutes to meals together, so that he could teach them God’s way of peace as the way to inherit the Land of Promise. And I say that Jesus’ method of conquering the Land of Promise by way of love and peace proves much better for all over the long run. I suggest we take Jesus’ wise lessons as guidelines for all of us in this 21st Century. Tom Towns is pastor of First United Methodist Church in Cortez.]]></content:encoded>
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        <title>Freedom’s journey leads into the Wilderness</title>
        <description>Biblical literature teaches that we all take seven journeys in life. Which journey are you on? Two months ago I wrote about our first journey in life – “Welcome to the Garden of Eden.” This journey begins with our birth...</description>
        <pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2014 22:18:49 -0600</pubDate>
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        <content:encoded><![CDATA[Biblical literature teaches that we all take seven journeys in life. Which journey are you on? Two months ago I wrote about our first journey in life – “Welcome to the Garden of Eden.” This journey begins with our birth and ends with us leaving safety and security as we move out into the world and into life, where we earn our bread by the sweat of our brow and suffer pain of birth. Our second journey is “The Passover Sacrifice,” which we might consider a declaration of independence, moving from slavery and encumbering relations into freedom. But freedom comes with anxiety as we wonder what to do and where to go in life. Today’s journey – “The Wilderness Journey” – often becomes our longest journey – a trip into the Wilderness, a word that is capitalized because it makes itself a serious journey that may last for a long time. After The Passover Sacrifice, we rush away from encumbering, confusing and enslaving relationships that held us captive, such as being married to an abusive spouse, slaving over a dead-end job, or addiction to alcohol and drugs. And once we extricate ourselves from these forms of enslavement, we find our freedom, along with a fair amount of fear, because now we must depend on ourselves instead of dysfunctional (although comfortable and known) relationships. Even if our dead-end job pays the bills, we grow increasingly upset with work that never fulfills us. And finding comfort in alcohol and drugs that lift us beyond work-a-day struggles buoy us for a while until we find ourselves curled up in a fetal position at a halfway house. Freedom comes at a price that involves learning to live with some anxiety and fear – something many of us wish not to experience. Nonetheless, freedom possesses powerful qualities, such as learning how to overcome obstacles in order to achieve what we wish. That kind of freedom develops once we take our journey into the Wilderness, where we depend only upon ourselves at first, but then often find God, Christ and the Holy Spirit to support us. In biblical literature, specifically the Book of Exodus, Israelites, seeking freedom from Egyptian slavery, found themselves often wanting to go back to Egypt. Israelites wanted the chance again to eat and drink all they wanted even if it required them to return to slavery. They discovered that becoming free generated fears and obstacles, driving them back to their desire for safety and security at whatever cost. In the Wilderness, the Israelites, you, and I often wonder if we can survive the stress. We may not realize that learning to handle the stress that freedom creates makes us stronger, more competent, and quite happy with being alive. We only learn this by going through the Wilderness. If you find yourself in an abusive relationship or unsatisfying job or a dependency on alcohol or drugs, consider the freedom always available to you. Realize that your journey out of dependency includes some losses in order to acquire new gains. Freedom demands that you and I learn new attitudes that help us avoid habits that keep us dependent. In the Book of Exodus, Israelites needed to learn new lessons, such as shifting their dependence on Egypt to dependence on the God of life. Learning how to depend on a God that no one sees proves to be a challenge for most of us. The alternative, however, of returning to old habits because they feel more comfortable will prove to be worse, because it involves returning to slavery. Maybe your slavery will begin to look less appealing as you acquire the joy of more and more freedom. If you find yourself in the Wilderness, take a stand today, telling yourself, “I intend to remain on this Wilderness journey until I learn to feel comfortable in my own skin, taking wise risks, overcoming obstacles, and learning how to re-adjust my anxiety and fears.” Just say, “I live in this Wilderness at the moment, but one day I will become free.” Keep reminding yourself that a fourth journey awaits you – a journey where you can find wonderful guidance. Journey No. 4 will require its own unique set of skill development and challenge, like learning how to be open to wisdom greater than ourselves. More will follow next month. For now … if you find yourself enslaved to dysfunctional ways to cope with life, then choose to get out of them, knowing all the while that you just decided to journey into the Wilderness, where you will become free and grow closer to becoming the person your loving God made you to be in this life. Happy trails. Tom Towns is pastor of First United Methodist Church in Cortez.]]></content:encoded>
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        <title>The Passover Journey – learning hard lessons of life</title>
        <description>We take seven journeys in life. Last month I wrote about our first journey, “Welcome to the Garden of Eden,” where we begin growing up and leave the buoyancy of infancy and adolescence and move into a world of adult...</description>
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        <content:encoded><![CDATA[We take seven journeys in life. Last month I wrote about our first journey, “Welcome to the Garden of Eden,” where we begin growing up and leave the buoyancy of infancy and adolescence and move into a world of adult responsibility – a place in our life decorated with questions such as “Where can I go to find answers?” To find answers, we take a second journey. I call it “The Passover Journey.” On this journey we make attempts to find answers and make numerous mistakes to discover “The Big Picture.” We ask, “What is life all about?” We take endless risks not knowing how our life will turn out, and we bind ourselves to commitments like car payments, mortgages, employment, marriage and divorce and parenting, to learn about ways to understand ourselves. Some go to church to find “The Big Picture.” Some resist church for the same reason. Some increase their education. Some explore life. The Passover Journey serves as that time in life when we, still in our 20s and 30s, find life exciting, limitless, and confusing. We possess boundless energy, taking side trips to make sense of who we seem to be. We wonder, “Am I on the path that authenticates my being?” Without fully understanding the consequences of many of our actions, we test the depth of life’s chaotic waters, swimming to this shore and that, diving deep to find the bottom, and floating just to see where we land. That we survive this phase of our life at all can be attributed in part to God’s willingness to help crises, injury, and death pass over us. More than once my parents wondered how I made it through young adulthood. I believe that, when I look back at this time, somehow God protected me as I explored life. Of course, some of us take our exploits too far, and we find ourselves in places where we need constant care and supervision – like a hospital or care facility. Yet, even then, we still live with opportunities to love and be loved regardless of imposed limits. In this Passover Journey, No. 2, we live like ducks, walking across a busy highway, causing drivers to stop to let us cross. What a miracle is this passover time! Exciting journeys fill our days. Our walking shoes stay tied on our feet so we can go faster and faster. Eventually, we find a path that may take us to our land of promise, where we can live as ourselves. We never know where our land of promise exists until after we’ve wandered in a wilderness, sometimes hungry and thirsty and complaining about feeling lost and alone. We learn about who we seem to be. We discover our limitations and who we wish not to be or cannot be, deciding that we cannot be all things to all people. And so, from infancy to adolescence we go on an exciting, inspiring and disorienting journey, setting the stage for our growth during Journey No. 2, when harms and traumas pass over us as we seek to find life’s meaning. Once under divine protection, we enter into a third journey, where our newly found talents, skills, and dreams get tested and honed, making us even more responsible and accountable not only to ourselves, but, also, accountable to the world around us. Next month: Our third journey – The Wilderness.]]></content:encoded>
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        <title>Our first journey: In and out of the Garden of Eden</title>
        <description>Imagine yourself standing in a field filled with bushes and trees surrounding you. You look down, seeing your bare feet. It occurs to you that not just your feet look bare. All of you looks bare. What might be your...</description>
        <pubDate>Thu, 11 Sep 2014 21:23:10 -0600</pubDate>
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        <content:encoded><![CDATA[Imagine yourself standing in a field filled with bushes and trees surrounding you. You look down, seeing your bare feet. It occurs to you that not just your feet look bare. All of you looks bare. What might be your first thought? As an infant we found ourselves naked often, and we thought nothing about it. We splashed in a tub filled with warm water. We laughed and threw water all around. Being naked never occurred to us as anything to worry about. Nakedness felt normal. Let me ask you now to use your imagination to consider how Adam and Eve felt in the Garden of Eden, where nakedness mattered not. What did they feel? Might it be freedom, yes? Maybe you felt this freedom as a younger person, too. And so… Welcome to the first journey of seven journeys we travel during our life, starting with utter freedom as residents in the Garden of Eden. When we first entered this world, we experienced complete independence. Our arms and legs went this way and that. Miraculously we got fed. Often we splattered water all over. And we slept deeply, traveling through delightful dreams not knowing that our dreams differed from the real world. What joy! Our first journey in life begins with total delight. We lack any awareness of self, never saying to ourselves or to anyone else, “My name is Tom. I am Tom.” We flow through time just like all the rest of stuff in the world – trees, birds, bees, and leaves. We find ourselves traveling in strollers or in someone’s arms. We experience light and darkness without any concern. We smell delicious scents. We grow hungry and receive food and drink. Our bed feels soft and comfy. When we cry we get attention and love. Oh, what joy! Then life happens… When we decide we can walk across a room, we fall and scrape our knee. “Ouch!” Large beings strap weird looking tortuous things around our feet, making it difficult to walk. “Quit it!” We like the feel of bare feet that grab the carpet that helps propel us. These weird torture instruments make it impossible to feel the carpet. “Leave me alone.” And these constricting things tied on our feet make walking impossible. And we get hot crawling and standing and moving about the room and this thing around our shoulders and waist makes us hotter and hotter. When we pull this hot thing off, the large beings put it back on us, saying, “Don’t take off your shirt. Don’t do that!” And so, life begins. Our first journey in life begins with rapture and progresses to accommodation, following the rules of the large beings, like our parents. As we grow, these large beings force us to learn how to put spoonfuls of food into our mouths all by ourselves. In time we learn how to tie our shoes. (I hate shoes.) We discover how to use the toilet. And our teeth get loose, needing to be pulled out. If luck provides, we get money for the lost tooth. “Yeah.” Our first journey in life is nothing less than a roller coaster with its ups and downs, good and bad, joyful and sad. It continues through our adolescence; and, we get more and more indoctrinated into what it means to be an adult. Because of our hormones we fall in lust every day and never grow tired of the prospects of being another person’s partner. Some of us graduate from high school actually believing that we know the meaning of life. Our first journey in life often feels wonderful, but it frequently confuses us. We meet people and actually have no clue about what’s going on in their head. I picture Adam and Eve looking at each other and wondering, “What am I supposed to do with him or her? And what are they planning to do with me? We wonder, “Anyone out there who can help me and teach me what’s going on here?” Of course the serpent would be very pleased to teach us how to act. The wise serpent says, “You want to know what’s going on? Please yourself; that’s what’s going on. Here’s a nifty piece of fruit sweet to the taste and easy to grab.” No large beings or parents are around to say, “Don’t do it”. No God. No nothing. So we say, “Sure. Sounds good.” Then we find ourselves undone. Our first lesson in life teaches how we undo ourselves – that is, how we mess up all the good stuff going on in our life to meet the wants and expectations of another person. Of course, this lesson never occurs for some, because some of us float through our infancy, childhood, and adolescences with secure friends and family; and, we go into adulthood trusting friends and family and live a joyful life for at least quite a long time. However, being undone can occur at anytime; and, learning from this lesson can develop wisdom. As we experience suffering, we learn how to deal with it – a very important lesson, indeed. Sometimes being undone happens later in adult life. All seems to be going well for quite a long time, and, then, BOOM. The roof caves in on our lives. What shall we do when this occurs? Wisdom teaches this: “If all is good, let it be. When all is bad, learn from it.” On our first journey through life – the Garden of Eden Journey – we discover how to figure out some of life’s game rules for the next decade or two. On our first journey, we struggle through seemingly endless challenges, and those struggles teach us how to adapt, readying us for the second journey of life, which in biblical terms is called “Why is tonight different form all other nights? Why am I seeing life differently than before?” We come to a time in our life when life seems different than it was before. We ask ourselves, “How have I changed over the past few years, and What’s next?” Welcome to Journey No. 2. Tom Towns is pastor of First United Methodist Church in Cortez.]]></content:encoded>
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        <title>The seven journeys of life</title>
        <description>Whether we like it or not, expect taking seven journeys through life; and, each journey bears a name: We call Journey No. 1: “I find myself with someone I don’t know in a place I don’t recall, and I don’t...</description>
        <pubDate>Thu, 31 Jul 2014 19:21:44 -0600</pubDate>
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        <content:encoded><![CDATA[Whether we like it or not, expect taking seven journeys through life; and, each journey bears a name: We call Journey No. 1: “I find myself with someone I don’t know in a place I don’t recall, and I don’t know what to do with them or what they want to do with me.” Another name for this journey might be, “Welcome to the Garden of Eden.” (Genesis 3) One characteristic of this journey stands out when we find ask ourselves, “What day is it?” Anytime we ask that question, know that this is Journey No. 1. We can’t decide where to go. We find it hard to remember what happened yesterday. We hear our inner voice asking, “Was that just yesterday?” Life moves too fast for us to comprehend who we are, who we were; and, for the likes of us, where did these people in my life come from? Welcome to the Garden of Eden, where we’re naked and exposed to people we never met before. Some experts liken this journey to adolescence. Journey No. 2: “Sacrificial Love,” known as, “I gave up my whole life for you, and now you want to run me out of town?” After adolescence, we might feel impassioned. Hormones rush through our agile bodies, driving some of us into heavy-duty careers and vocations, college, and/or graduate school; or, we find ourselves completely mesmerized by a gorgeous object of our affection, who we may or may not marry. Once our “impassioned-ness” cools, life takes a number of turns. One might be when we feel like everything we gave to our beloved ends in our bankruptcy and love lost. Once the divorce gets settled, the spouse gets the house, the car, the vacation cabin, the RV, and 50 percent of our retirement. We feel lost. We gave our blood and our love for them; and we get all the bills. The best case scenario, therefore, for Journey No. 2 involves staying impassioned. Stay in love with your partner, your family, your interests or keep the fire alive for your career despite occasional ups and downs. This way Journey No. 2 keeps us vital and ready for Journey No. 3. Journey No. 3: “The Wilderness Sojourn.” Even if we transition from Journey No. 1 into Journey No. 2 without too many upheavals, at some point we journey through a wilderness. We travel to new and sometimes scary places. Like in the Garden of Eden, we don’t know the rules; and, we find ourselves asking, “What’s next?” Perhaps we find ourselves starved for food, water, and affection. We feel lost. The kids don’t call, or our company lays off 18,000 workers (“Am I next?”). Like in the Book of Exodus, our path seems uncertain. Of all the seven journeys, “The Wilderness Journey” crops up often more than once in our lives. The solution? The solution might be Journey No. 4: “I found a guiding light, and I hope I won’t get burned.” When in the wilderness, we can only welcome a guiding light. Be careful, however. Not all “guiding lights” act respectfully. Sometimes our new and wonderful “guiding light” steals what our ex-spouse or our failing company never grabbed on their way out the door. With luck, a guiding light appears in the darkness. (See “Pillar of Fire” in the Book of Exodus.) With this “Pillar of Fire” or another name, “The Shekinah Glory,” we find ourselves on a new and even exciting course, headed for a new life. We might ask, “Where are we headed?” Yet, our soul tells us, “Follow the fire and the light”. On Journey No. 5, we find ourselves headed to “The Land of Promise.” We call Journey No. 5: “The Promised Land – A Place That Must Be Better Than Where I’ve Been.” Of course, others already found this to be their Promised Land, too; and, there might be a struggle or two to acquire our piece of the land. Yet eventually, we and all the folks around us find ways to get along. We meet new people. In time we ask, “Who governs this Land of Promise? As we seek to find the answer to this question, we discover that a renovated city and capital of the Land heralds the name, “The New Jerusalem.” The New Jerusalem came under a new Hebrew management supervised by King David. (See 1 and 2 Samuel and 1 and 2 Kings) The New Jerusalem exhibits people treating each other kindly and fairly – even lovingly. They all forgive one another; and, they love the Lord their God with all their might. Then for some of us, we continue trekking through this New Jerusalem. And then… Journey No. 7. We see in the midst of this New Jerusalem a restored Garden of Eden with Its Tree of Life (which we never saw on Journey No. 1). Lots of healing and no more death or tears. Why not simply call it Heaven. So Journey No. 7 we call: “I find myself with another person, and we know what to do with each other – to treat each other kindly and lovingly (unlike the first time we found ourselves in the Garden of Eden and never knew what to do)”. Over the next seven months, I plan to give more detailed descriptions of each of these journeys. Just know that you should plan to travel seven journeys in all during your life. Tom Towns is pastor of First United Methodist Church in Cortez.]]></content:encoded>
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        <title>Bible doesn’t paint life by numbers – use your mind, heart and soul</title>
        <description>Some lessons our parents never taught us. Consider not getting those lessons a parental oversight, or consider those missing lessons as lessons our parents never learned in the first place. Surprisingly, parents really never knew everything as we young children...</description>
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        <content:encoded><![CDATA[Some lessons our parents never taught us. Consider not getting those lessons a parental oversight, or consider those missing lessons as lessons our parents never learned in the first place. Surprisingly, parents really never knew everything as we young children believed. As a child growing up in Missouri, I guarantee you that no “School for Parenting” existed in the 1950s. Our parents’ parents handed down lessons, or our parents flew by the seat of their pants. Nonetheless, parents sallied forth on their own without much if any training. Perhaps not attending such a school that taught parents how to parent resulted in our becoming such the wonderful and perfect people we believe ourselves to be, because we needed to teach ourselves how to grow up on our own, always treating ourselves with greater kindnesses than some parent-disciplinarians. On the other hand, maybe we live less perfectly, because our lives lacked certain important lessons that even today we never learned. You decide. Suffice it to say that parenting can be a very bewildering time and not all the bases get covered before children leave home. One important lesson my parents never taught me concerned nose care. Yes, that’s right. Nose care. Sounds funny, but all my life I suffered from “Hay Fever.” As I grew up, the medical community changed my diagnosis, calling my symptoms “Allergies”; and, every fall when I returned to school, I carried an enormous, white handkerchief with me to school. I always felt embarrassed. All day long I sneezed, dripped, and grew increasingly shy because of my “Allergies.” It made reading, writing, and ‘rithmetic-ing challenging; and, every time I bent down my head to read or write or figure math, my nose went wild. And by the time I made it home at the end of each school day, my soppy handkerchief required immediate laundering. Then one day, after living with my “Allergies” for decades, I discovered a marvelous lesson: I discovered that if I trimmed my nose hairs along with taking antihistamines and vasoconstrictors, I found myself cured of “Allergies”. Not only that, I snored less – a blessing for my entire family. Still today I ask myself, “Why didn’t my parents ever teach me these lessons?” Then it dawned on me that they rarely sneezed, although they always snored; yet, they snored only at night as they slept, and they never knew they snored. They never knew just how awful I slept because of their snoring. I must say that they kept we wide awake during much of my childhood, and I never made mention of their snoring, because I thought all parents snored, which I found out later in life as an untruth. Now that I learned lessons my parents never taught me, I can rove around town without any handkerchief and sleep better at night. Occasionally I sneeze, but I recover almost immediately. What’s my point? As good a parent as God wishes to be, not every life lesson gets covered. While biblical narratives teach hundreds of lessons about how to be a good person (whether we suffer from “Allergies” or not), not every lesson about life gets addressed. For example, Jesus taught from Deuteronomy 6 to love God with all your mind, soul, heart, and strength and from Leviticus 19:18 to love your neighbor as yourself. While those two commandments from Christ cover a lot of bases, they cannot cover every situation we find ourselves involved in. While the first Fruit of the Spirit is love, there are more: peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. (Galatians 5:22-23, New International Bible) And so, if we love and sometimes exhaust all the remaining Fruit of the Spirit, losing our ability to be gentle or kind for example, what additional lessons can our parent, God, teach us? I believe the answer might be something like God saying, “I gave you a brain. I gave you a heart. I gave you a soul and an ability to love in great measure. Start using your brain, your heart, your soul, and your ability to love to teach yourself love lessons. Be creative. I Am.” All of us reach the end of our rope sometimes when no biblical narrative fits the bill for an endless, wearying or troublesome situation. We might scour the Bible for the answer not to be found there. At times like these, continue to pray, continue Bible study, and, also, be creative, using the brain, heart, soul, and ability to love that God gave you. No book no matter how long, no matter how great, and no matter how brilliant can ever cover all the bases as we live. Take initiative. Explore your heart and mind. Learn something new every day. Keep your eyes and ears open. Be persistent as well as prepared to make a new discovery. In this way we can learn lessons our parents, including our divine Parent, could never teach us. Tom Towns is pastor of First United Methodist Church in Cortez.]]></content:encoded>
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